i shouldn't let petty things/people get to me but..

F' that crap grrrr i am so so so mad right now this girl that use to be one of my best friends is accussing me of abussing my children and not being greatful for them i am very greatful that i can conceive such beautiful life yes my son does push me to my limits from time to time because he is as stubborn as me and yes i lose my temper some times but i have never raised my hand in anger to him nor would i some of my parenting may seem harsh to some yes i do spank my child but he has a padded pull up on and i don't spank that hard but if you took care of my child you would see time outs and taking toys away don't work with him. but look at him he has no bruise that he hasn't caused himself ( like his mom he bruises easy and is accident prone and he is also a boy and likes to jump off of everything but i don't need to explain to anyone) he is happy well fed and has more then he will ever need he is spoiled rotten and so is my baby. she said she hopes someone calls cps on me go for call cps there is nothing they will find. it makes me laugh that ever since she had her daughter last year she thinks sh can critisize everything everyone else does with their children just because you have A child doesn't mean you know everything i have 3 and know very little they teach me something new every day. on top of this she called me a 'sh*tty friend" umm no you lived in my house for 200$ i could have easily rented my house to someone else for 4 times that, i have constantly tried to be there for her but she refused to let me and shut me down. she wasn't there for me when i lost my pregnancies nor did she even try to be. anyways grrrrrrr this is yet another reason why i only let a few people get close to me.